online therapy
wanting to purge all of the baggage from my head and my heart into the universe...........
Thursday, January 18, 2024
mind
Thursday, January 19, 2023
2022 self
A year ago, in March i walked out of a career that i have spent my entire life succeeding. I just left, filed for leave, deleted and blocked everyone from that world that was no longer in my corner or served my best interest.
No i had no idea what i was going to do but i knew what i was no longer going to do. I immediately made an appointment with my therapist. I really look at her as my life coach, my biggest cheerleader. She navigated me through the entire 7 months that i would be at home and unemployed for 22.
I was listening to a podcast today at work. It was all about new year, new you. I am the largest i have ever been in my life. I was halfway listening to her and the reason she caught my attention was because she was so candid about spending her life in corporate america and then being fired. I was intrigued. She is an overachiever, runner, has so many things on her resolution list that i was feeling overwhelmed and it wasnt even my list. She was talking about how you must write things down to be intentional. Then she said that look back at where you were last year at this time and how much had changed. I think i had to hear that at least twice before feeling intuitive.
Wow, my january 2022 self would never believe where 2023 me is now.
Tuesday, January 10, 2023
the mask
the race
Monday, September 12, 2022
Hi
Tuesday, January 19, 2021
turn key
i sat there today in the chair that belonged to my grandmother that my mother sat in at her dying mother's bedside.
this chair is in my foyer because i have plumbing issues that no one wants to fix. i cant help but feel as though this symbolic of my life.
i texted my bff as i told her that i count the minutes until 5 so that i can feel something different.
i texted my sister and asked if she thought that our father looked back at his life and think what an amazing job he did with his children? her reply was "ha". i replied with i am sure that he looks at us an ungrateful bastards. she said that she thought that we turned out to be good people despite his insanity and neglect.
i feel as though everything is overwhelming.
my boss, my leader, my mentor was let go last week. a new normal with the covid. it was all so sad. he didnt even get a chance to say goodbye even though he fiercely fought to do so. i think this was just the needle to the haystack of the continuous bad luck we call 2020.
my bff called me and said "wtf, that was deep". she is my new sanity.
i am grateful for such an amazing husband that doesnt take it personally when i turn to someone else to heal the pain.
she told me that she had been dating a guy. the chiropractor we call him. his dad was a neuro surgeon. his parents had money but they had chores. they built the deck on their back porch. he is divorced with children. he lives in a huge nice home. he is renovating the house next to his.
she said they were having a conversation and he said he liked "turn key". i am not sure that he meant anything other that the obvious but we took it to mean something so much deeper.
my bff is a bad ass, she drives a challenger in which she calls charlie. she likes vintage. she has grandma sweaters that are itchy and unique.
we decided that neither one of us are turn key but she is way cooler than i will ever be