People involved in top-quality relationships do not seek happiness. Instead, they seek growth. Growth, in turn, creates happiness.
I have issues with boundaries and balance. I am to one extreme or another and usually end up upset with the situation when i have given too much or feeling guilty because i didn't give enough. Guilt is a huge motivator. You can guilt anyone into doing almost anything. I don't think that i ever knew how to set realistic and healthy boundaries for myself. I don't like confrontation so i don't usually call people on their crap. I hate that God seems to keep putting me in situations where i have to face these difficulties.
Case in point. Someone whom i thought was concerned about my emotional well being sent me a text and wanted to make sure i was okay....then it turned into a "what are you wearing" kind of conversation. Really??? It is amazing what kind of people crawl out of the woodwork when they find out you haven't had sex in almost 5 years. Here is some more advice for all of you guys out there, asking a girl about her gag reflex isn't a great seduction technique either.
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