resolution

today i read an article about new years resolutions (yes, the magazine was current)
I don't think that i made any for this year.  I always resolve to lose weight, this has been my resolution for as long as i can remember.  One year i did make a list of the things that i wanted to accomplish during the year, nothing insurmountable like climbing mt Everest or curing cancer.  The list did include getting a tattoo (never could decide on anything and i need someone to hold my hand/entertain me), learn how to walk in high heels (i bought some heels, does that count?), and i cant remember the other things. 

I don't get new years resolutions, i think that you should get up every day and try to do better than you did the day before.  I am always trying to be a better me, some days are better than others.

"all the resolving in the universe cant conquer our emotions....feeling emotionally out of control is like having a fender bender: It teaches us to navigate cautiously, pull back before we hurt ourselves and others, and find the calmest aspect of the psyche so we are safer "drivers" in our relationships."